Stephen asks: "I am trying to find a 'real' adult dating site. The people on there either do not exist or are trumped up.
It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply.
It's pretty hard for any site these days (especially the big ones) to stop fake profiles and scammers from signing up, but I think I get what you're after.
There are a lot of adult dating sites that don't have a lot of users, or use sneaky marketing tactics like the bait and switch you're referring to.
Since the essence of every hookup site is to get laid, it comes as no surprise that it has amassed quite a lot of people.
It is mostly available in various parts of the globe—top users are from the US, the United Kingdom, Australia, and Asia.
Most hookup sites let you register and create a profile for free.
That way you get a feel of the site, helping you decide if you should stay or not. Since the endgame is always a meetup, plentiful hookup sites like Be Naughty are location-based. Some sites may hook you up one-by-one while another will show you a directory of the nearest members.
To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.
We've all seen them - the ads show a bevy of beautiful women in your area, but when you sign up, you realize that the women were just ads that were geographically targeted to your search preferences.
Even sites that may once have been good can go bad.
With them, you learn different techniques and find out which sexually works best for you. Be vocal about what you want and learn from every sexual encounter.
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