I'm not saying that God doesn't have a will regarding your dating life.
God may, in fact, have a spunky brunette in mind, and he's steering you toward her as you read this.
But I do know this— if you rely on this idea too much, your dating life will get really confusing.
Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.
" (No, that wasn't a suggestion for you to set up an arranged marriage.) For the Hebrews and the early church, dating wasn't an issue to be addressed in Scripture. When the Bible was written, a person basically had one of three options: remaining single, an immoral life with multiple partners or prostitutes, or an arranged marriage.
God will tell them if a relationship is right, and God will end it if it's not.
All they have to do is sit back and enjoy the ride.
The Bible promises he will provide that whenever we ask.
Rely on God's love, wisdom, and sustaining presence while you're dating.