If the two parties (no pun intended) are able to respect one another's differences -- it just could be the most powerful love of all.Get the best dating app for singles and find a match based on who you really are and what you love. That’s why Ok Cupid shows off who you are beyond just a photo.You begin to feel sweeps of insecurity, penetrating into the deepest part of your heart. And, more importantly, why do you still not know what it is?What the f*ck is wrong with you, and why is it that you've attended every cool party in lower Manhattan -- yet you've never even experienced even a mild taste of a healthy relationship?So what happens when the quintessential party girl finds herself falling for a living, breathing grown-up? It's a fascinating-yet-terrifying experience that unexpectedly holds a mirror up to our reckless lives.As chronic avoiders, we're just not used to seeing things as they are.The sudden presence of a real adult in our worlds puts a tiny pinprick in the shiny pink balloon we call home.Suddenly, reality crystallizes into our frame of vision.
You're always laughing a little too hard and a little too long.Nothing strikes the fear of God into a party girl like the following question from her adult lover: "When do I get to meet your friends? Isn't that why the temporary instant debit card was created? The absolutely insane texts you get on a regular basis from your friends don't always reflect so kindly on you.Oh yes, you just ADORE a lovely cozy evening in on a Saturday night. Real life example: "Happy Sunday, I just took mushrooms! "You're a little too comfortable in those handcuffs.Maybe it's because you went so over the top with trying to look like an adult that it looks like a costume? If only they knew the real reason you won't accept their friend request.Or maybe it's because you paired your prim collared shirt with blazingly sexual dark red lipstick and torn tights? It's because your pictures make it look like you’re perpetually buzzed in faux fur, constantly clutching a half-smoked cigarette (which may or may not be true).The saddest part is that even after dutifully looking it up, you still can't quite figure out what the f*ck it is.You never realized how weird your eating habits are until a real grown-up who shops at Whole Foods, and cooks and eats organic comes bursting in your life.adults wash their eye makeup off before bed, and you, party girl, just keep adding to it.You've either burned a bridge with a bartender, know too many questionable characters or have kissed too many of the people you will surely encounter (this is why I will never take a new date to the West Village). That moment when you're walking into a new bar with your new lover, and the bouncer stops to say "hi" and ask you "how you felt after last Saturday night."You look at him with big, crazy, vacant eyes and reply: "Uh, excuse me, kind sir, have we met...? When you're partying with your friends, you miss the stable, fulfilling conversations and civilized dinners you share with your hot grown-up lover -- yet when you're with them, it takes everything in you not to go into a serious state of FOMO.Regardless, there are very specific insecure thoughts and feelings that manifest in the brain of every party girl when she starts dating "real adults."You've always loved your clothes -- but never realized that everything you own might be considered NSFW by normal grown-up standards (thank god I work at Elite Daily).As you sort through your closet, you come to the realization that what you thought was a perfectly appropriate shirt is actually a midriff-grazing crop top (oops).