Thereafter, the more questions you answer, the more likelihood the OKC algorithm will find you a match.
What this means is, with not much thought, you can fairly easily sculpt your profile to find, for example, a gay eugenics pipe smoker.
There are different levels of this pestery – few people get as many creepy messages as Asian women (documented here).
But after a couple of weeks of messages that make the You Tube comment boards look sane, a lot of women give up on it.
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Long story short, it involved going to her sex dungeon and being locked in a cage while she choked me and her husband relieved himself on me.
The message ended in the most English way imaginable: "Do let me know if that sounds like your cup of tea". Call me a prude, but urine-soaked homoerotic strangulation is not my cup of tea at all.
I got what I wanted from the site – although it wasn't always the most comfortable experience. It works, but you have to be willing to sort a lot of wheat from chaff.
As few people actually bother deleting their profile, part of the torment of using OKC is wondering whether the person you've messaged is ignoring you or simply met a lovely bloke six months ago.
Mind you, it’s not all bad – there are plenty of lovely women on there, and the site has a huge success rate in matching partners.
While signing up for free is possible, you don't get much from the site with the basic membership, making it difficult to find a sex buddy.
However, Ashley Madison using an interesting payment concept where you buy credits and use them as needed, with most going towards messaging members.