“Before my life had gotten so crazy, I’d managed to develop some material that worked really well on the dating sites I was using.
But I was at the point where I was only able to return messages sporadically, which obviously didn’t go too well with the matches I was interested in.”“I found myself wishing there were two of me,” he continued.
These people are often in their early 20s; young women with less dating savvy are easy targets for the company’s methods.
“Rule 1: Don’t make her think too hard,” the manual says.
His idea for a digital-dating-assistant service started in 2009, when he was frustrated with the amount of time it took to search for matches online.
So if you want to have a chance at meeting your most intriguing matches, you need to have the best possible profile, photos, and messages.”In my guise as a middle-aged American male, it’s my job to pursue women on our clients’ behalf.
“I thought, ‘Why couldn’t I just take what I had developed, and train someone else to sound like me, and outsource my online dating to him?
’” After finding someone on Craigslist who “did a really great job,” Valdez started thinking about how many people were in the same position: time-poor professionals who might benefit from some of the lessons he’d learnt.
My most frequent mistake was asking career-oriented questions, which were deemed too difficult for some women to answer.
“She seems more simple,” my trainer would write in response.