Whatever it is, it gets some single people ready to head to bed.“If the guy can make me laugh hard, he’s pretty much sealed the deal,” says Michele, 43, from Akron, OH.Explains Leslie, 30, of Madison, NJ: “I’m self-conscious about my body as it is, so I know that when I feel like unabashedly ripping my clothes off in front of him, I’ve reached a safe place.” Getting to this point is a gradual process.
Perhaps because people feel they can really let loose when they're secure in the relationship.
The fact that she understood my thinking in such depth convinced me that we were really in sync — which would translate well in the bedroom.
It did.” What is it about people who can get you giggling at the drop of a hat?
“For me, it can happen as early as the second date,” says Cate, 26, Boston, MA.
“Good sex is just as important as good conversation, and I think it’s important to find out how sexually compatible you are together.” Still other singles don’t adhere to either the just-do-it or wait-till-later camps.