we are about lose our marriage over this sex problem..
This emerging interest in sex life often results in the best sex they have ever had.Despite this, and probably to "Laurel's" disappointment, I do not want to go "f**k something" - at least, not something other than my wife. There are many things about physical intimacy that don't have to be intercourse or orgasm.And frankly, the older I get, the more important things are physical touch, physical contact - comforting, nurturing, soothing.Possibly you could include a bit about one's sex drive diminishing because of some of the effects of aging which are here to stay.I'm sorry but you husband is lying he wants to fuck something ,,,don't believe he is on your level about sex even,,,old dudes still think about it watch porn cheat and use viagra and other bullshit pills because they are selfish pricks he is doing something BEHIND YOUR BACK,, Telling somebody what "all men are like" is not helpful and not accurate. I am in my 50's and my wife suffers from on and off chronic pain.I have severe systemic osteoarthritis and need strong medication to at least diminish the pain. Between the pain itself and the side effects of the meds, my sex drive has vanished.Despite fighting this condition, my life has gotten narrower. My husband coincidentally developed the same condition and jokes about "his 'n' hers" arthritis.Women at 50 are no longer fighting to establish a marriage, a career, or a family.They are ready to do something different and their focus has suddenly begun to center on their relationship with their own sexuality.It can involve new adventures, brand new experiences, and the fresh freedom of erotic autonomy ready and ripe for exploration. I am having the most sensual mind boggling physical loving affair, ever!!! Having sex with the same partner after many years can be like having the same breakfast everyday plus an grumpy husband or a nagging wife add on top of that, it's better just to read a book in bed. Now he wants sex 3 times a day and because of health issues and no libido it has become a problem..This is a comment to all females / woman's over fifty --- sometimes u feel like a teen - but u have sex as an " Super Adult" - with out borders - make sex journeys - be naked and get so much more self confidence I am 55, widowed 6 yrs,and until recently , I thought my sex life was over . I was told woman reached there sexual peak in there mid 40s , Pfst! I have MS, fibromyalgia, 4 decessated disc, 2 herniated disc and high bp and rheumatoid arthritis but he thinks my pain is in my head..